Friday, November 7, 2025

AVBC - Sun. 11/09/25 – 4 PM - “A Time and a Place” (Family Memorial Service) Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, John 14:1-7

 Sun. 11/09/25 – 4 PM Adams Village Baptist Church

Sermon Title: A Time and a Place(Family Memorial Service)                      Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, John 14:1-7

 

          Good afternoon, friends, brothers, and sisters in Christ, and welcome once again to our annual Memorial Service here at the Adams Village Baptist Church. Today we remember those loved ones who passed on to glory in Southern Jefferson County. We specifically remember the names of those folks who have passed on from October, 2024 through September, 2025. A lot of time and care was taken to gather all of these names, and chimes will be struck for each name individually later in the service.

          For those that do not know me, my name is Pastor Paul Winkelman, and I have the pleasure and the honor of being the newly called pastor here at the Adam’s Village Baptist Church, as of the first of this month. I most likely do not know many of you, but I do want you to know what an honor and a privilege it is to be able to lead this service today to remember and uplift those we love who have gone on to glory.

          I have often said that when it comes to the people who we love leaving this earth, I can be very selfish. I can be very selfish, because I do not want those people that I love to leave. Instead, I want them to be here with me and with others. Yet, for those who are now with Jesus, if we went to see them where they were for five minutes, would we really ask them to come back to this earth? As we continue to grieve and to remember, God is with us, and God has given us each other, so they we may love and uphold each other.

          Whether this is your first time at this service, like it is for me, or whether you have come to this service for years, what a privilege it is to honor and remember those that have went on before us. I have told different churches before that we all, “Stand in a line of heroes, and stand on the shoulders of giants.” Many who have gone before us have sacrificed, loved, and have given in so many ways. When we read their names aloud here in just a bit, we are honoring people made in God’s image. People like us that were and are loved by God.

          I prayerfully chose a couple of scriptures for this afternoon that I often read when I do funerals, celebrations of life, or a service like this. The first scripture that I just read that I want to discuss is where I got part of the title for this message. This scripture is from the Old Testament or Hebrew Bible Book of Ecclesiastes 3:1-8. The Book of Ecclesiastes was largely written to remind and warn us to not place our hope in anything other than God. In Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 we hear of the difficulties of life on this earth. In this scripture, maybe many of the people that we will remember soon in this service have experienced many of the things in Ecclesiastes 3:1-8. Once again, as I read a few minutes ago, once again this scripture says, once again:

Everything Has Its Time

3 For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:

a time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
a time to kill, and a time to heal;
a time to break down, and a time to build up;
a time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
a time to seek, and a time to lose;
a time to keep, and a time to throw away;
a time to tear, and a time to sew;
a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
a time to love, and a time to hate;
a time for war, and a time for peace
(Eccl. 3:1-8, NRSV).

 

My best guess is that the names that we will read and have a chime for here soon, will include soldiers, nurses, teachers, business owners, and all sorts of vocations, including a stay-at-home parent. My guess is that these folks have experienced some or many of these “a time” statements. Further, some of these “a time” statements might seem harsh, like “a time kill,” or “a time to hate,” or “a time for war.” Since God gives us free will, I am certain that the God we love does want us to kill, to hate, or go to war with each other. This world though is so fallen though, and as we seek to love and serve others like Jesus, humanity often just falls so short. I can image the stories of the names that we will read here soon, and what they experienced in their lives. How many of the “a time” statements, once again, did each person experience, and further, are we not grateful that any of the struggles or the trappings on this world are not problems for any of these people that went on to glory.

          Since we are those who are still on this earth but will one day join those who are with Jesus in heaven, we still have opportunity to make Adams, Adams Center, Jefferson County, New York State, the United States, and the world even better than the people we will remember today made it. Imagine a world with no hate, no war, etc. I do not think we can be fully achieved until Jesus Christ our Lord returns to earth in glory, but I do think that God can use us to make it much better than it is right now. I hope and pray that we meet those people who we remember today, one day in hereafter. I hope that these same people will be proud of the good things we did and will continue to do in their absence.

          The other scripture that I read a few minutes ago is from the gospel of John in the New Testament 14:1-7. In this scripture, Jesus is telling his original disciples, and us, that through him there is no death, but only enteral and victorious life in Him. John 14:1-7, tells us, once again:

Jesus the Way to the Father

14 ‘Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling-places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you?And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also. And you know the way to the place where I am going.’Thomas said to him, ‘Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you know me, you will know my Father also. From now on you do know him and have seen him’ (Jn. 14:1-7, NRSV).

 

          In this scripture, Jesus is saying in heaven, where God is, where God the Father is, there many, countless places for people to go. Yet, if we know Jesus, He says that He will make a special place for each and everyone one of us. All we have to do is turn to Jesus and believe in Him. Put our faith and trust in Him, and give him our guilt, our shame, and our pain, he will make us into a new creation. He will give us eternal life, and He will even prepare a special place for us there.

          In our lives here on earth though, we experience all sorts of things. Our faith can get tested, we see things, we experience things. We might ask questions about suffering, and why would God allow this or that. The world we live in is broken and cracked, but if we call upon Jesus, He can be the rejuvenating the restorative water though us that flows though the broken and cracked places in this world. In John 14:6, one of Jesus’ original twelve disciples, Thomas doubts how to get to this heaven that Jesus speaks of, despite being with Jesus for three years. During these three years seeing and hearing the amazing things that Jesus said and did in the gospels. Jesus then reminds us that he is the way, the truth, and life, and only through Him and Him alone can we saved and restored.

          People have asked me, “Pastor Paul,” what if you are wrong and there is no heaven with Jesus? I tell them that I have put all my eggs in that basket. Why? I have done so because I get to live a spiritually free a life of victory now, believing fully that I will be reunited with countless others that have gone on before me, and who knows maybe a couple of the names we read tonight, will approach me in heaven one day and say, “oh, your that kid that did the annual Memorial Service at Adams Village Baptist Church when my name was read”.

          My best guess is that for the people on this list that loved Jesus and believed in eternity with Him, as many of us do, that this believe, this love, and this hope played a profound part in how they lived their lives. It did so, because if we know who we are, if we know where we have been, and if we know Jesus, we know the past, the present, and we have the promise of an eternal future with Him. Since I believe this so strongly, I believe that we will see those who love Jesus again, and if we are wrong, which I don’t believe we are, then we can continue to live lives of hope, love, peace, and victory with an open heart through our Lord and Savior, Jesus the Christ.

          So, as Jesus has promised to prepare places for us, we get the honor and the privilege of remembering those who have already checked into the Father’s House, knowing that at some point in the future, Jesus has a room waiting for us all.

Friends, know that you are loved, and know that you are prayed for, and know we are honored here at the Adams Village Baptist Church to have this service every year to honor those loves ones like yours, who went before us. May it be so. Amen.

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